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<article schema_version="1.0" id="CC-106" source_sha256="293d7f9ea3f2e4449e57604188d8d06179763ee99fa82c2bdf444574812e7e41"><title>What did I say when I wanted a moment to finish?</title><author>Craig Coffee</author><canonical_url>https://usedtostutter.com/when-listeners-rush-your-speech</canonical_url><source_markdown xml:space="preserve"># What did I say when I wanted a moment to finish?

By [Craig Coffee](/craig-coffee)

“Can you give me two seconds and then I&apos;ll stop talking?” I used those words in a group conversation when I wanted a moment to finish my point.

I said thanks, then went back to the person I had been speaking to. I was explaining why I regarded getting their point across as a win. I finished that thought and said I would stop talking.

## What did I say after asking for that moment?

I came back to the point I wanted them to hear: “you got your point across.” Then I explained how I had given the good speaking experiences more room in my own thoughts.

That is an actual moment from one of my conversations. I asked the group for a little time, returned to the point, and brought my turn to an end.

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</source_markdown><sections><section id="reading-content" role="source_context" citation_url="https://usedtostutter.com/when-listeners-rush-your-speech#reading-content"><source_markdown xml:space="preserve">“Can you give me two seconds and then I&apos;ll stop talking?” I used those words in a group conversation when I wanted a moment to finish my point.

I said thanks, then went back to the person I had been speaking to. I was explaining why I regarded getting their point across as a win. I finished that thought and said I would stop talking.

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I came back to the point I wanted them to hear: “you got your point across.” Then I explained how I had given the good speaking experiences more room in my own thoughts.

That is an actual moment from one of my conversations. I asked the group for a little time, returned to the point, and brought my turn to an end.

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