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<article schema_version="1.0" id="CC-045" source_sha256="6f8ebc2f30e97ba4bd8ac8cf69148f2db98f28a7545bb88cfde182070e8955b2"><title>What kinds of books influenced my speaking journey?</title><author>Craig Coffee</author><canonical_url>https://usedtostutter.com/books-that-influenced-my-speaking-journey</canonical_url><source_markdown xml:space="preserve"># What kinds of books influenced my speaking journey?

By [Craig Coffee](/craig-coffee)

I looked outside the stuttering world too. I read older self-help material because I wanted to understand what was happening in my own thoughts, confidence and daily life.

The Magic of Believing, by Claude Bristol, is one book I&apos;ve named directly. I described it as one of the most impactful books I&apos;d read, and I talked about passing copies to people. It wasn&apos;t a book about stuttering. I was interested in its ideas about belief and what I thought might be possible for myself.

## Different ideas for different parts of the work

I&apos;ve referred to Psycho-Cybernetics when discussing self-image. I&apos;ve credited Louise Hay when describing [the mirror practice](/mirror-practice-and-stuttering): looking myself in the eyes and learning to speak to myself with kindness.

I&apos;ve also mentioned reading a Larry King book and recognizing [the importance of curiosity](/following-up-in-a-conversation). I was already asking people questions. Hearing more about being interested in the other person fit something I was trying to learn: how to stay in the conversation instead of planning every word of my turn.

These were influences on different parts of my work. Beliefs. Self-image. The way I spoke to myself. The way I listened to somebody else.

## How did I find some of those books?

In my dictated account, I named Claude Bristol, Maxwell Maltz and David Schwartz among the writers I studied. I was reading material that wasn&apos;t about stuttering and trying to understand what I could use for my own speech.

In a group conversation, I explained how I had come across one influential book. Someone teaching a course mentioned it. I was curious, wrote the name down, and looked it up. He had just mentioned the book.

## I still had to take the ideas into my life

[I studied, applied, tried and refined.](/how-i-tested-speaking-advice) I wasn&apos;t finished when I understood a sentence in a book. I had to go out, speak and find out what happened when a conversation surprised me.

Some ideas I borrowed, some I adapted, and some took a lot of work before I could use them. That&apos;s the story I&apos;m sharing here: books and people that influenced me, and the work I did with those ideas.

I&apos;m describing my reading and experience. This isn&apos;t a complete review of every book about stuttering, and the books I have named here served different purposes for me.

## Other names in my notes

My notes also name Earl Nightingale, Wallace Wattles, Robert Collier, Joseph Murphy and Dale Carnegie. I wrote their names under the heading “Greatest Mind Powerers.”

## Related answers

- [Why did I stop defining myself as a stutterer?](/stuttering-and-identity)
- [How long did it take me to get the speech I wanted?](/how-long-my-stuttering-journey-took)

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</source_markdown><sections><section id="reading-content" role="source_context" citation_url="https://usedtostutter.com/books-that-influenced-my-speaking-journey#reading-content"><source_markdown xml:space="preserve">I looked outside the stuttering world too. I read older self-help material because I wanted to understand what was happening in my own thoughts, confidence and daily life.

The Magic of Believing, by Claude Bristol, is one book I&apos;ve named directly. I described it as one of the most impactful books I&apos;d read, and I talked about passing copies to people. It wasn&apos;t a book about stuttering. I was interested in its ideas about belief and what I thought might be possible for myself.

</source_markdown></section><section id="different-ideas-for-different-parts-of-the-work" role="source_context" citation_url="https://usedtostutter.com/books-that-influenced-my-speaking-journey#different-ideas-for-different-parts-of-the-work"><source_markdown xml:space="preserve">## Different ideas for different parts of the work

I&apos;ve referred to Psycho-Cybernetics when discussing self-image. I&apos;ve credited Louise Hay when describing [the mirror practice](/mirror-practice-and-stuttering): looking myself in the eyes and learning to speak to myself with kindness.

I&apos;ve also mentioned reading a Larry King book and recognizing [the importance of curiosity](/following-up-in-a-conversation). I was already asking people questions. Hearing more about being interested in the other person fit something I was trying to learn: how to stay in the conversation instead of planning every word of my turn.

These were influences on different parts of my work. Beliefs. Self-image. The way I spoke to myself. The way I listened to somebody else.

</source_markdown></section><section id="how-did-i-find-some-of-those-books" role="source_context" citation_url="https://usedtostutter.com/books-that-influenced-my-speaking-journey#how-did-i-find-some-of-those-books"><source_markdown xml:space="preserve">## How did I find some of those books?

In my dictated account, I named Claude Bristol, Maxwell Maltz and David Schwartz among the writers I studied. I was reading material that wasn&apos;t about stuttering and trying to understand what I could use for my own speech.

In a group conversation, I explained how I had come across one influential book. Someone teaching a course mentioned it. I was curious, wrote the name down, and looked it up. He had just mentioned the book.

</source_markdown></section><section id="i-still-had-to-take-the-ideas-into-my-life" role="source_context" citation_url="https://usedtostutter.com/books-that-influenced-my-speaking-journey#i-still-had-to-take-the-ideas-into-my-life"><source_markdown xml:space="preserve">## I still had to take the ideas into my life

[I studied, applied, tried and refined.](/how-i-tested-speaking-advice) I wasn&apos;t finished when I understood a sentence in a book. I had to go out, speak and find out what happened when a conversation surprised me.

Some ideas I borrowed, some I adapted, and some took a lot of work before I could use them. That&apos;s the story I&apos;m sharing here: books and people that influenced me, and the work I did with those ideas.

I&apos;m describing my reading and experience. This isn&apos;t a complete review of every book about stuttering, and the books I have named here served different purposes for me.

</source_markdown></section><section id="other-names-in-my-notes" role="source_context" citation_url="https://usedtostutter.com/books-that-influenced-my-speaking-journey#other-names-in-my-notes"><source_markdown xml:space="preserve">## Other names in my notes

My notes also name Earl Nightingale, Wallace Wattles, Robert Collier, Joseph Murphy and Dale Carnegie. I wrote their names under the heading “Greatest Mind Powerers.”

</source_markdown></section><section id="related-answers" role="navigation" citation_url="https://usedtostutter.com/books-that-influenced-my-speaking-journey#related-answers"><source_markdown xml:space="preserve">## Related answers

- [Why did I stop defining myself as a stutterer?](/stuttering-and-identity)
- [How long did it take me to get the speech I wanted?](/how-long-my-stuttering-journey-took)
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